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Rebound Relationships Signs, Common Patterns and What To Do if Your Ex is in One

How to Get Your Ex Back if She is Dating Someone Else - 9 Tips

My heart goes out to anyone who is still in love with their ex but their ex is already dating someone else. Dumpers often start dating again not too long after the breakup so chances are, you are going to feel insignificant when it happens. Since it can take over 8 months to get over your ex so he or she will likely date someone else during that time span. Does my ex have no shame? Why would my ex give up so quickly and start dating someone else? Let me assure you that if the roles were reversed and you did exactly what your ex did, he or she would be thinking about the same things. The way you feel about your ex post-breakup has a lot more to do with the fact that he or she broke up with you than it actually does with the relationship.

In fact, a massive fight or breakup might occur and now you are looking like you are in a really good position. THAT is what we are trying to do here. Of course, the situation you currently find yourself in is one of the hardest to experience as your chances for success are slightly lowered. Allow me to explain. So, I am not going to sit here and tell you that if you follow every little step I outline on this page that your ex girlfriend is going to break up with her current boyfriend and come running back to you.

Ok, let me put this in simpler terms so you really have a good grasp at what this page is going to do for you. Imagine for a moment that in every single breakup that occurs between a couple a certain percentage is assigned to it.

That percentage correlates to the chance that, that couple has of getting back together. Imagine that you follow the advice on this page and get to a place where your ex girlfriend is confused about her feelings for you and her new boyfriend.

Now, this can either work in your favor or work against you.

My Ex Is Dating Someone Else

I am talking about someone who provides emotional support, someone who listens and tries not to judge, someone who truly cares about her and she realizes it. However, as I am sure you have realized there are situations where this does happen. Would you like to know how it happens? One of the biggest assets I can bring to you with this page is my experience in dealing with thousands of couples.

You see, I have a sister site to this one called, Ex Boyfriend Recovery, where I have helped thousands of women. For example, there was once a girl that came to my other site, Ex Boyfriend Recovery, who was dating a new guy but wanted her ex back even though he cheated on her six times with six different women.

So, what did this guy who had done horrible things to her in the past have that drew her in so much that she wanted to leave her perfectly good boyfriend? At first that was what I thought but the more I talked to her about her particular situation I began to realize that there was something else going on in her head. In other words, even though some women find themselves in a situation where they are clearly better off relationship wise sometimes the appeal of the connection can trump everything.

So, if you were to ask me how to get your ex girlfriend back in a situation where she has moved on and her new man treats her well then I would say you would have to hit her where she will be affected most, her romantic feelings for you.

You will need to find a way to get her to tap into those feelings for you and when she does that is going to dramatically increase your chances of having her run back to you. Like I said, a comparison between you and the new guy is eventually going to happen no matter what it just a question of when.

Well, lets pretend that your ex girlfriend has been dating her new boyfriend for 2 months exactly. By now she knows him well enough to know what he is about. If she finds herself thinking something like.

Then that is a very good sign because it means you are winning the comparison battle against her new guy. Humans in general are drawn to things that make them feel good and flee from things that make them feel bad. Sometimes women can get something called the grass is greener syndrome GIGS. For example, if your ex girlfriend breaks up with you and starts dating someone new who treats her really well like we talked about in the comparison section above your exes GIGS is going to be verified and as a result it is going to be much harder to get her back.

Of course, the GIGS can also work in your favor big time. I want you to be aware that the GIGS exists and could have been a possible reason for the breakup between you and your ex.

Those of you who are avid readers of my site have probably read this guide and this guide. In those particular guides I talk a lot about the importance of the no contact rule. The No Contact Rule- A certain period of time where you purposefully cut off all communication to your ex girlfriend. For example. Well, when I originally wrote this article back in you could see that I clearly erred on the side of caution.

Typically speaking there are two lines of thought on the length of time you should be waiting after the no contact rule. One of the greatest fears for men who enter into the NC rule during this situation is that their exes are going to get so close to their new man that they will completely forget about their old one. Ok, imagine if you completed your no contact rule and called your ex and begged for her back.

Not only is this needy and desperate but it is too big of a statement too soon. Instead if you did subtle things like liking a picture on Facebook then your ex is going to sit there and wonder. Instead of thinking. Timing is an important concept for you to grasp here because if your ex is in the midst of a honeymoon period with her new guy whenever you start to try anything it might be met with a very cold disposition.

Some of you may be wondering where I came up with this and for me to fully explain that I have to tell you a story. Gain access into her inner circle of friends by making them your friends.

My ex hates me and is dating someone else

Study physics, build a time machine and go back in time to be born as her identical twin brother, if possible train as a geneticist so you can become her identical Siamese twin brother, that way you will never, ever be separated again. Hope all these very practical and useful suggestions help you transform into the creepy stalker you are hell-bent on becoming.

If she says she hates you, there are several possibilities:. Could she actually really still have feelings for you? Could you have a chance? No, not really. That feeling you have is your confirmation bias trying to convince you that what you want to be true really is true. I learned this lesson at some significant cost. What you believe or want to believe about her feelings carries zero weight here. What does carry weight are her actual feelings, her words, and her deeds. Here are a couple of things for you to consider that might make it easier for you to accept things as they are:.

Show her the respect she deserves and listen to her. Why do you think your opinion about whether she has feelings for you is more important than hers? What should you do? ManI feel youyou need to leave her alone, you dont want to be with somebody who hates youno?

She feels this way at this moment and you should think about yourself now as she obviously think about herself. So its time for deeper inner workhit the gym, think what went wrong and never everever reach out to her again. Unless she will contact youyou make a date and hopefully by that time you will realise what went wrong.

It is very important that you dont contact her as this will not re-attract her. What will attract her is the person you was when she first met you so analyse what happen to you between than and now and you should have some idea.

Do not count she will contact you ever so you need understand the reality. You will not be able to force her or logically explainand remember it doesnt matter how you feeltry to understand what she feels.

Time to move on for better things and believe me it will pass. But first of all be a man because most probably you forgot how to be one, and thats why she is gone.

Your hopes of reigniting some faded spark is near impossible. The fact of the matter is that there are others out there to learn about and love. Let her go. Focus on you and get your life in order. In all earnestness, longing for her will only drag you down. She is the least of your worries - you need to focus on yourself, grieve the relationship, and move on from it. Your ex has stopped seeing you and has a new boyfriend.

That should tell you that she is not interested in a relationship with you. She says she hates you. Second piece of evidence that she is not just saying things for amusement. That she means what she says. She may have blocked you. You think, assume, try to convince yourself, that what she has said to you is not real. You know better. You persist in believing that you can win her back.

You would have to begin stalking moves, semi legal attempts to get a person who has made it very clear that they do not want anything more to do with you. Why do you refuse to accept that she does not want to spend time with you? Your thinking is not in touch with reality. This is not a good sign. Sign In. My ex girlfriend has a new boyfriend.

She says she hates me but deep down I think she still has feelings for me and I can get her to like me again. What do I do if she blocked me?

Update Cancel. Learn how to safely enable SaaS apps. You dismissed this ad. The feedback you provide will help us show you more relevant content in the future. Answer Wiki. Answered Nov 16, The must-play city building game this year. Hi Ryan, Man my situation right now is a bit different.

Me and my GF broke up 3 week ago. I did no contact and everything and started talking to her again. It went very smoothly and she said we can be best friends for now as I can't come in any relationship with anyone. A guy proposed her but she refused. But right now she talks to me about guy she has crush on and everything about there talks.

What sign can I take it as and what should I do to get her back? I have done a lot of improvements in myself and on the reasons which caused the break-up. The best thing you can do right now is to keep calm and be confident, while building up this friendship you have with her into something more personal again.

Avoid getting needy or insecure and projecting these feelings to your ex, because it would only push her away. Me and my girlfriend for 4 years broke up 3 weeks ago and for one week I acted like a maniac and did all those things which you mentioned as mistakes.

After reading your article I did NC but in a day she contacted me and said that no matter what she will not be able to come in any relation with anyone but there is a guy who is similar to what she always admired to be her husband.

She is in constant talk with him and loves to talk to him too. We broke up because of my insecurities, trying to control her and attention issues. I have improved a lot by now but I don't see any hope of getting her back. I am 22 and my girlfriend is 23 years old. What should I do in this case? Please reply to my query as this is the 3rd time I am posting this. If you want to win her back, you're going to have to ultimately meet her expectations and come across as someone who is the better option in comparison to the other guy.

Start by becoming friends again before you try to build on the connection and attraction with her further, but before you even go into that, it might be a good idea to complete no contact first in order to give her some space to let go of the negative events that took place after the breakup.

I did the NC but right now we are talking like best friends. I mean she shares everything with me about every event going on in her life be it personal or career related. Right now she is saying she don't want anyone in her life until she achieve what she wants but if she feels about someone she might go for him.

What can I do in this situation? Shall I be continue like this and get in friends zone? She might end up adding me to her besets friends list but may never accept me as her Bf. As long as you don't get emotional or act needy and continue to maintain this friendship with her, there are many opportunities for you to turn things around as you continue to build the connection between both parties, while subtly adding bits of flirting to the mix.

I cheated my ex girlfriend many times by chatting with other girls and lost the trust, now my girlfriend has broke up with me and has a new boyfriend, now I realised I love her and promised with myself that I'll never cheat her again and want her back.

I had bargaining her, requested her to be with me but she is not being agree and blocked me from everywhere. What should I do? Follow this article. You can also read more about rebound relationships here. Hey, me and my ex broke up about a week ago. She claims that she wants to get back together in the future and still loves me.

Well since she is still responding to you, it means your chances are still there and this other guy is simply competition that you ultimately have to overcome. Prove that you're the better choice and avoid getting insecure or jealous because technically the relationship with you has officially ended and she's free to meet whoever she wants.

My girlfriend and I have been having arguments lately and she called things off ,immediately after that was very emotional and begged her to take me back but she wouldn't listen ,she told me she has a new guy and told me to move on ,we have been in a long distance relationship for about two years and always felt connected ,I want her back so could do with some tips. The new guy could simply be a rebound but if the relationship had started almost immediately after the breakup, there's a chance that she was cheating on you already prior to the relationship officially ending.

Keep in mind that if the lack of physical contact was one of the major reasons leading to the breakup, unless you're able to do something to close in on the distance, it's going to be hard to convince her or build attraction. Hey,please advise me,we have stayed with my girlfred for 4 yrs and we have a daughter who happens to love me most,my lady is trustworthy but we had financial problems n due to joblessness I used to beat her up whenever we had issues.

I suggest giving her time to cool off and you should consider working on your anger management issues because this is probably what made her leave in the first place. You're going to have to make it up to her and convince her that you've changed ensure you actually do so. Hey Kevin, So about a month ago my gf broke up with me for a few different reasons, including me being a little overprotective and scared of other sexual partners being involved.

After grief I made the mistake of keeping up contact and that made me feel worse due to the memories that brought. After being a little too desperate, she decided to block me for a short while I grief. She says she still loves me and cherishes what we had, but she wants to be single and sleep around etc. She also stated that she had "lost feelings" for me, and didn't feel the same as she used to.

I'm just wondering if there is any advice you could offer, she said that I shouldn't hold out hope for her, but she also said that maybe one day something might happen but definitely no promise as she could come out of her time single as a different person.

I'm also wondering if I should let her know I'm going to start no contact to work on myself, or if I should just start. We also share the same friendship group. I would suggest simply going into it and only consider bringing it up if she messages you first or asks why you haven't spoken to her. Avoid meeting with the friend group for the time being, especially when she is around since it could set back your progress.

Hey Kevin, Me and my ex were dating for 6 months. The first 5 months were good. We had some bumps on the way but we managed to stick it through. The 6th month however was the worst.

We kept fighting about her boy best friend because I had a feeling that he likes her. But she refused So each day we kept fighting about it when it came to the point where she said she lost all her love for me and wants to break up but be best friends. So I accepted it but I was broken. But she refused and said that she wants to focus on herself and her schoolwork.

She tells me how she needs time alone about a week. But then 2 weeks after the relationship she moved on with her boy best friend I said liked her.

But I still want to be with her. How do I make her come back to me and leave that guy? Is this a rebound relationship? What can I make her do to make her see that I can make changes for her? Remember that while this guy may have had intentions all along to be with her, her relationship with you was what prevented him any chance of doing so and in turn remained best friends with her through the period.

Although the fighting was caused because you felt insecure about him, nothing was going to happen as long as she had feelings for you still. She was right in saying that it was the arguments and stress from it that led to the breakup, which gave him the chance to finally move in after she broke up with you. Honestly, instead of outrightly trying to win her back, which paints you as a needy and desperate person, take some time to recover now and I suggest making the same move as he did in sticking by her as friends and not overstepping boundaries.

Let the relationship self-destruct on its own and help her through it, instead of trying to break them up directly. Hey guys or gals, My name is Chance and I was just wondering if anyone actually comments back on this at all still? If so here goes. My ex and I dated for 3 years, we met and kinda skipped the proper courting stages and had sex right away really. She got pregnant within months and have a gorgeous 2 year old baby girl together. We moved in together and she had a son already that 4 at the time.

We tried to work through our personal differences while figuring out how to love each other and we failed more than we succeeded.

I had major trust issues from my past long before I met her and let that be he main reason I was unwilling to fully commit and try my hardest. Given the duration of relationship and link you share with your ex because of the kid, it's likely that this current guy is a rebound who provides her with novel feelings that she probably didn't feel with you, especially towards the end of the relationship.

I would suggest giving her some space before reaching out to connect with her again. You can start off initially with wanting to spend time with your kid, which gives you an opportunity to remain in contact with her, and eventually subtely show her through your interactions with her that you've changed since breaking up.

My girlfriend Broke up with me after 5 days at uni. I wasn't their for her the first couple of days and one guy was and she is now with him. I miss her so much but she thinks the new girl will treat her so much better. Is their anything I can do? If she could decide so quickly to drop her current relationship simply to chase down something new, then you may not want to push for her to come back, at least not for the time being because until her emotional maturity grows, there's a good chance of her repeating the same actions whenever someone comes along.

Ok to start it off. I was in a relationship with my ex for 3 years. She cheated on her long term partner with me after we became really close friends. She later on broke up with him but we decided to take it slow and dated two months before getting together. We were really happy but by the time we got to our second year we started to drift apart. I started to lose attraction for her and it upset her.

We got into arguments about not caring enough for one another. She then decided to dump me. Two weeks later she is going out with my best friend who I have been friends with for 20 years.

This hurt me a lot, it also hurt me because it is a fairly long distance relationship which is something she said she would never do.

So I took 1 month off with no contact, worked on my self. Two days after no contact she messaged me out of the blue saying that she is so sorry for how things happened and that see felt bad of how she handled it.

She said she is much happier now and that her BF my ex best friend makes her happy. However we text quite frequently and she replies to me quite quickly. I am not sure if her boyfriend knows or not. I really care about her and want her back but also part of me wants revenage and another part feels like I could never trust her. How should I proceed? Would I be able to get her back permenantly? If you genuinely want to win her back, you're going to have to work on first getting over the resentment and lingering feelings of distrust, or both aspects would come back to eventually haunt the relationship even if you do succeed in getting her back.

If she is willing to give it another shot, I would suggest doing your best to make changes and to address the issues that caused the relationship to fall apart. Understand your reasons for feeling insecure and the need to control or manipulate, and perhaps consider being more mindful to avoid doing it to her or she would probably leave for good because by then, she would have determined that you haven't changed and given up altogether.

Im 21yrs old and my ex gf is 20yrs where on same sex relationship girl-girl we've been on our relationship about 4yrs and 1month. We broke up because her thinking is what if one day she wants to form a family or marry a guy.

I asked her if shes happy or if shes still loves me she said shes happy and she loves me so much and we dont have any problem on our relationship. She didnt have a boyfriend since then im her first long term relationship.

Are you wondering if you still have a chance of getting your ex back if he or she is dating someone new? What can you do in order to reignite the flame between. Sep 6, - I think part of that pain is not being able to understand how they're able to move The thing is, often people go in hot pursuit of finding someone else the break-up and sit here waiting for your ex to stop dating other people. How To Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back If She Is Dating Someone New So, my team and I started recommending this new plan to the men and the women we worked with and slowly but surely we started noticing .. I hate him so much..

Were broke up about 2months but after our break up she starts entertaining the guy whose chatting her. I think by now there in a relationship the guy and my ex. She blocked me on IG and twitter but she didnt block me on facebook, she keeps on posting on Facebook mentioning the guy like shes trying let everyone's know that shes in a relationship with the guy and shes very lucky to have her hence shes not that type of person because shes a private type in terms of relationship.

I dont know if shes still into me or shes on a rebound relationship. What will i do to get her back? Please help me. These situations can be a bit tricky because sometimes a girl can go through phases where they seek different things. If you don't find your comment here, it's highly likely that your comment did not meet initial posting guidelines. If you have a lengthy situation and require more input regarding the matter, you could post your story on our forum boards where many of our community members would be more than willing to share personal advice.

Since last week, we broke up due to me hearing her complaining about our relationship and it really breaks my heart. She said that i changed my attitude and all her housemates however just ask her to break up when she's fighting. I open the door and initiate the break up myself. When she begged me to stay i choose to walk away. It is my greatest mistake ever. This week has been a terrible. I couldnt eat or sleep well as i missed her so much.

I did some silly things like meeting her up to begged her to stay and texting her like i miss you. She told me when i turn my head away, she feels so much better. Shes my everything. And i couldnt imagine to lose her. Give her some space, and work on those aspects she felt were issues in the relationship and question yourself if these were indeed things that you may have begun taking for granted later into the relationship which caused her the unhappiness.

Hi im 18 so is my ex gf we were together for 2 years. She broke up with me for a number of reasons; commitment fears, wanting to be independent, because she couldnt be in a co-dependent relationship, because she didnt find me attractive anymore and stopped loving me. She said i was the right person and the wrong time and i believed her. I asked her why and she said it is all just for fun and has no feelings, but it makes me feel sick.

We've only been broken up a month and she's already sleeping with and dating random guys she doesnt even know. I want her back as a girlfriend but i have no idea how to do it, and how to make her realise she made the wrong decision. How do i convince her everything she's done since she dumped me is wrong and a mistake, and get her to want me for me, and want to be with me.

We're friends at the moment and she says she loves me as a friend but doesn't want me back. Unfortunately, only she can make that decision on her own to realize her mistakes of letting you go. One thing you can do to help with that is by focusing on yourself and improving aspects to make you look like a better catch. Show her these changes and get her to realize from there. It is the first time we got a break up.

Its been a week since then, i made some mistakes like begging her to stay and even got drunk to cause some trouble to her like calling her up and telling her i miss her. Also some short messages like i missed you, care for her like whether has her eaten. Im suspecting her to be sleeping with someone else but i couldnt do anything. Is there still chances for me to get back with her after no contact rule starting by now?

We were together for 2. The reason of breaking up is because of me initiating after hearing she complains to her housemates about me changing my attitude to her. I dont cherish her enough and i look even more desperate now. How do i "Get her to realise from there" though? Are you saying i should change myself to make myself more attractive and stuff like that? Well, that is the objective of our 5 step plan. We advocate for positive changes to create a better version of yourself because the current version causes the relationship to end.

How can i get her if I will not beg to come back Begging makes you look desperate and weak, and she will lose respect for you in the process. All the more if she has moved on, begging will only affirm her decision to walk away from you. Pick yourself up emotionally first, address the issues that you contributed towards the breakup, before reaching out and building attraction as if you were chasing her for the first time.

Hi, So my ex and I were together for about 13 months. In that 13 months we broke up several times due to fighting, but we always got back together after a week or less. Last November we broke up after a really tense situation and it lasted for 7 months. We tried dating and getting to know other people in that time, but we ended up back together last June.

Unfortunately we broke up again in August and now I just found out that she's now back to dating the guy she was seeing before we got back together in June. Apparently they've been dating again for a few weeks now. I've already made some big mistakes like making her really angry at me after this break up and send long messages saying sorry and that I wanted her back. She's already blocked me from social media. I know I should initiate No Contact and I should try to improve myself and try to fix the toxic parts of our relationship, which I have been doing, but how long do I do NC for?

And do you think I still have a chance at getting her back? You might have to consider if getting back is truly the best choice. In the time you've been dating her, the relationship has repeatedly ended which clearly indicates a problem between both parties which may require change from both ends and not just you. However, if you still intend to get back with her, 30 days of no contact seems right given the time frame of the you guys getting together from June till August.

If after no contact, she is still dating the guy or doesn't indicate interest to be with you at that time, you might have to consider walking away even longer for now. Hi Kevin, I like your article and i think your advice is super helpful given my situation. My story is super long and i'd be happy to post it up here but I think what would be really helpful is if I can potentially get on a call with you to discuss my situation.

We provide personal email coaching with Kevin in which you'd be able to share your story with him and get one-to-one advice. More information can be found in this link. Hi Ryan. My ex and I had been dating from March 18 to around June 18 when everything fell apart. I was in the wrong because she found some texts on my phone when texting another girl and those messages were a bit naughty. She ignores me and comes back oftenly. I want my girl back. Perhaps for the time being, it might be better to go into no contact to give her some space to let go of the bitter emotions she may be feeling.

Apologize for your previous actions, and tell her that it might be better to spend some time apart. When you reach out again, try to make things up to her and show her that you have changed since then.

Hi there Ryan, I just wanted to start off by saying I love your articles and they've helped me tremendously. With that being said, me and my girlfriend of 4 years broke up about 3 weeks ago, we are both 21 and we've only ever been with each other. She said that she wanted to break up to experience other people and try different things.

I later found out that she had been talking to someone else. I do put the blame for this on myself because I wasnt the best boyfriend. I never showed any affection, didnt take her out, started to gain weight, didn't have a job, and none of the little things. Yet she still showered me with affection and always tried to put me on the right track, and I couldn't even let her know how much I appreciated that. Shes always been head over heels for me, and after the breakup it seemed like that girl I knew was gone.

She was going out every night having fun with her new guy, getting to experience the things she never got with me for a while.

I realized what I had lost and knew that I needed to get her back. So I stopped sitting around and got a job, switched my life habits, started going to the gym, and ended up losing over 15 pounds now.

I tried telling her I'm changing for her and all I was accomplishing so far and all she said was that shes proud but it's too late and that I need to stop taking to her. So I did just that. Then just a couple days ago she came to drop off my clothes, I had no intention of talking to her, I was just going to take the clothes and leave it at that. But then she said she wanted to talk with me and I went along with it. We starting just talking about everything that had been going on in our lives for the past few weeks.

We were having a great time and laughing ot up just taking about everything, but then she told me the past couple days she was having panic attacks something she has a history of and that she didnt know why. Then once again I try to tell her I can change for her and I just need one more chance yet she still is so insistent that it's not gonna happen.

I messed up once again and resorted to the begging and bargaining and then she eventually left and went home. I texted her when she left to tell her I was being stupid, I didnt mean to scare her away, and that if she needed anything she could come to me.

She said she understood and told me thank you, but also told me once again that we need to stop taking. I later found out that she could have gone to see her new guy that night if she wanted to, instead she chose to spend it with me. Since that night I decided to start no contact again and continue on improving myself.

What I'm asking for here is your thoughts on my situation and should I be there for her if she needs it, or should I tell her no. Thanks for the reply in advance. The first contact seemed to have gone well until the begging and bargaining started, to which you might have caused her to withdraw again.

Give things some space, and when you reach out the next time, try to keep your emotions in check and take things a step at a time. For now if she reaches out, you could consider being there for her but remember not to overstep any boundaries and make her uncomfortable. Me and my ex were perfect with each other and rarely argued, not even fighting. When we argued we would talk it out with each other and come to terms with each other.

Last week tho she started talking less to me because university had just started and she started going out with friends a lot more. When I talked to her about this, instead of our usual open to heart discussion she acted more defensive. Then at the end of the week she gave me her answer and asked to break up with me.

Not a big deal, right? I agreed to her request when I heard the real reason and we broke up on good terms. And just thinking about her being forced to be with someone from her own culture and sleeping with them makes me sick to my stomach. Or should I first convince her dad to change his mind and then try to get my ex back by following this guid?

It would really depend on how strict her dad would be regarding the culture issue, and whether you think your ex would someday be willing to disregard it and decide that the relationship is more important. The latter would help in you trying to convince her dad to support her decision, otherwise, you'd be stuck with fighting two battles 1 to win her back and 2 to win her dad over. If she firmly chooses to respect her dad's decision, you might find yourself having a hard time to do either of the tasks and it may honestly be better to walk away.

Hi Ryan, Great material Hoping you can give me some insight, grab a bag of popcorn. Everything was great Ski lessons, cooking classes and the likewe talked about marriage, moving in and all that good stuff. We were very good together, laughed often and always in contact. Fast forward until 1.

She bit and agreed. Come Friday, I followed up with no response until Saturday morning. Heart dropped but I said that was fine and meet anyways. First 1. She was engaged, making jokes, laughing, reminiscing on old times, talking life with no mention of the current person see is dating. Last 15 minutes, I get into why I came.

I told her that I expected my feelings to fade but they have not, we were good together and that while I respect her new situation, if she was ever single again, we would be great together. She said we had good times, thought of me often and that the current thing was not serious and that she would expect to be single again at some point. I ended coffee and left after hug. On Wednesday I texted saying it was great catching up and seeing her, she said the same back. I am now debating on going all in with a text this weekend stating while I respect her current situation, I think we both are great together and have feelings for each other and I want to give us another chance.

Positive factors: I think the new thing is sub 4 weeks old, she agreed to meet with me in light of it, she stated its not serious and maybe single again in the future, stayed for a great 2 hours, was very excited to see me, responded to text a few days later, still is the first to stalk my snaps.

Negative Factors: Family issues still there, she is currently dating someone, she is stubborn, I waited over 3 months missing summer and her Bday. That puts us out months broken up on a 6 month relationship. Thoughts on my game plan? Instead of immediately going all in which could backfire drastically should anything not go according to planit would be better to perhaps remain on friendly terms first, and fact find a little more about her current situation with her date, as well as to rebuild familiarity and comfort towards you.

Hi my name is Daniel but we've been together for two-and-a-half years I can't say I've been perfect but I've shown love respect and on their kids she's still living with me but she's going to sleeping with this guy and staying over there she said that it's over this is fresh and I just read this I did every single thing that you put on there not to do is it too late to start fresh and not do the communication thing which I haven't all day today. About 11 months ago I signed for my daughter to move out of state with her mother and I never told her and I kept it in now I did tell her and she's like why didn't you tell me before I broke down and cried to her and apologized and she still said it's too late she has feelings for this guy she is a nurse and she used to be his nurse and that's what came in contact.

Spend the time picking yourself up from the breakup first and go into no contact. If she has developed feelings for someone new, the only chance to win her back is if things don't work out between them, or if you come across as the better alternative and to do so would require some changes in your life to become a better version of yourself than before.

I met my ex-gf the middle of and things were going pretty good and we were both happy. At we spent months being together at same time preparing for college. She was the first to leave for school. During our time together she as always hinted that she was afraid of falling for someone else. At some point, she began making suggestions about finding someone to take care of her while she was in school this was rampant that, it stirred number of insecurities within me.

During the time we were together she made out with a guy a family friend she felt sorry and told me about it. I forgave her. But the insecurities didnt go away. It drove me into thinking that I was never good enough for her. At the same time I battled great deal of social anxiety which I have worked on. After she left for college I stopped contacting her for the fear that I wasnt good enough. During the following year i still didn't get in contact with her at the same time I didnt move on.

I was sort of stuck, still working on my anxiety. Till i initiated contact and tried explaining myself that I was dealing with things really personal and that I never left her for someone else.

My mistake was that I didnt deal with my issues completely, somehow he grew distant. But I'm okay wit whatever happens. I understand why the breakup happened and have realized that it was a huge fault of mine. I'm in a good place right now and to be honest, I'm texting u just because I miss speaking to you.

I don't have a goal or an ulterior motive for texting you. I just want to see what happens" template from your site of course. So there is no coming back for you. We were never meant to be so Just move on. Take care". Sorry Forgot to add when we met she 16 and I Its been 3yrs. At this point she could still be going through a phase due to her age, and you might want to consider walking away for the time being to focus on yourself and grow as a person.

Frequencies and phases of life would change rapidly for people around that age, and you should try to reach out and connect with her once again as friends first later on after some changes have been made to your life and you become the person she can visualize being with.

She broke up with me because I was still hurt from a past relationship and I was slower moving than she was.

We cared deeply for each other, but she has some PTSD that wouldn't let her move on even though I wanted to. She also said multiple times she couldn't imagine not having me in her life and for me not to disappear. She said we need to take it day by day and time will tell for us. Its been about weeks since the breakup. I did everything to a T.

My Ex Is Dating Someone Else Already And It Hurts

I had no contact, during that time she contacted me. We texted a lot of remembrance texts and finally went out on a great hike the other day. She said she wanted to go on more hikes if I wanted to and texted me later that is was good seeing me. We had some more text conversations that were good. She's been hanging out with this guy since day 1 of the breakup. They kinda knew each other before. I was very skeptical of them forming something together, but kinda had my mind eased as she said they were joining their freelance businesses and working of a lot of big projects.

Well I just found out two days after the hike that they are seeing each other. Do I have a chance here? Seems like a rebound but high risk if there is a lot of work and money at stake. What do I do now? Ask her if they are a thing then just let it roll off my back like I don't care because I'm in a good place and tell her there is still hurt and its best to not be in contact for a while?

People can be irrational when it comes to emotions, disregarding professionalism. You could let her know that it hurts and go into NC for the time being while they're dating.

Oct 8, - A friend once told me his test of whether he's over an ex is whether it would bother him if they were dating someone else. Under that logic, I've. Jun 25, - If you're Struggling because your Ex has Moved On, Read This If you've been through a breakup, regardless of who you're ex is dating, sleeping with or actually in a The breakup (which let me assure you - needed to happen if this Getting a high from something and someone else to avoid the true. Dec 31, - When I break up with someone I ship them off to an imaginary island Seeing your ex with someone new is always going to be weird, You start to either deeply hate or deeply love this new stranger you've never met before.

Hi Ryan, I've lived in London with my girlfriend who was from Argentina for the past three years. We had an incredible connection and lived what we both agreed and still do was the best 3 years of our lives, our friends, family all loved what were together.

She began to miss her family and country and got the point where she wanted to move back to Argentina to "see how she felt" and whether she wanted to stay in the UK and get married etc, of which I totally understood.

So we broke up and she moved away. During the first two months apart, there was a lot of communication between us and I have to admit I became very needy and desperate for her to come back very unlike myself.

It got to the point though where I was just causing sadness in her life as I was upset about her leaving, and she told me she was going to move on. I think I must have made every mistake in the book! A week after this, I found out she had already met someone else and is moving on. Again, I made a massive mistake by losing my shit when I found out about her being with someone - mainly because she had continued to string me along with hope until the day I heard about the new person, and it really really hurt.

She said that when she met this new guy, It made her realise she didn't want to fight for me as she was attracted to him. A lot of the pain lies in the fact that if we weren't born so far apart, we both admit that we would have been together for life. We were so perfect before this ordeal and I feel my neediness made her fall out of love with me and into the arms of another man. I had never been needy, desperate or jealous once within the relationship. It's been about three weeks now of sparse contact and the last email I sent yesterday was an email to her apologising for my neediness and that I respect her decisions which I actually do and I wish her the best.

She sent me an email apologising for her actions and saying I would always be in her heart and that the best memories of her life were with me. What course of action do you think I should take I keep wondering if I hadn't been trying to convince her to come back, the outcome may have been totally different. You might want to consider several options depending on where you stand and given the circumstances:.

Most of this year we were together but I kept her at an arms length and was not committed to the relationship and was honest about it.

A few weeks ago we had a blow out where she basically told me she just wanted me to tell her I could guarantee we'd be together at some point. I told her no relationship is a guarantee but I wanted to work on things. She told me she was going out with friends that night but she would call me when she got off work.

When you know your ex is getting close to someone else while you are here waiting, doing Will my ex-girlfriend or ex-boyfriend forget about me now that they have a new For some people, dating is an exciting and rewarding experience.?Why Your Ex Started a ?Signs and Common ?Signs a Rebound. I know for some guys, the thought of your ex girlfriend in bed with someone else . If your ex is dating someone else after the breakup, she is not doing this to get Part of me really hates her for what she has done to me but the other is that I. Jun 28, - My heart goes out to anyone who is still in love with their ex but their ex is already dating someone else. I know how much it hurts to see the.

She didn't call so I texted her and asked what's up. She texted me back something along the lines of "it's not the right time, i'm sorry, i'll always love you.

She text back and said she loves me and hates me so much. I asked her to come home and she said no she was staying out late. Like a stalker, I drove by her house shortly after and she was coming home.

I asked what was going on and she told me she went out with another guy someone she mentioned before but that she came home because she was confused and wanted to figure things out. Long story short, we were kinda sorta together over the past week but I was needy, clingy, etc.

This Friday she said she was going out again and after not hearing from her all night, I drove by her house at 5am stalking again I know and her car wasn't there. Rather than waiting for another lie I texted her that I was hurt and couldn't believe it was so easy for her to leave me for someone she barely knew and that my time with her was the best of my life and goodbye. I realize I just pushed her right into this other guys arms but my question is, do I try and reach out and tell her it will hurt me if she sleeps with this other guys and I'm working on things, or do I just institute no contact?

If I can stop things before she moves forward I want to, but I can see how she just has the desperate image of me stuck in her mind right now. In the meantime, I've been following the advice of the guides and started working on myself and haven't done any more crazy texting, calling, etc. It would be better to initiate NC, as the former idea would probably push her further away because of the impression she may hold over you at this point. Brilliant article this, pretty much how my ex is behaving, she is moving in with her rebound after two months, I have grew immensely over the two months, would say I'm better than ever on many cases.

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